How to Meet Your Neighbors After a Move

Putting yourself out there is way easier said than done. In the age of working from home, social media, and lingering pandemic self-isolation, some days the only social interaction we have is behind the screen of a computer. A result of this internet-focused social scene is feelings of social anxiety. It has become increasingly less common to talk to strangers in public spaces when we could just as easily glance at our phone to avoid an uncomfortable situation. So how, then, can we introduce ourselves to strangers without feeling crazy? Here are our best tips for putting yourself out there to meet your neighbors after a move.

How to Meet Neighbors Post-Move

Take advantage of building-wide events: For those that live in an apartment building, your leasing agents and building staff will likely put on a public event every month or every other month. You may notice signs for these events posted in the elevator, in the lobby, or in any public space like the fitness room or garage. These events are put on for the purpose of introducing neighbors to each other and fostering comradery amongst tenants. Don’t be afraid to take advantage of these events if you’re hoping to meet your neighbors.

Make elevator small talk: Another great tip for folks in apartment buildings is to take advantage of time stuck in an elevator. The ride all the way down from the 10^th floor is a great time to ask about something you’ve noticed in the apartment, events around town, ask their dog’s name if they have one, or compliment something about them. Elevators are perfect for no-strings-attached conversation as you will be going your own separate ways in just a few floors. After a couple of elevator run-ins, you will have made a new friend.

Visit local bars and restaurants: If you don’t live in an apartment building, one of the best ways to run into people in your area is to go where your neighbors are. Restaurants and bars are a safe bet for those who are a little more anxious to strike up a conversation as people are usually a little more open to conversing in these spaces as opposed to other public places like grocery stores and malls. The tight quarters of a typical bar on a weekend night are a perfect excuse to introduce yourself to the person or group next to you.

Go for walks: Finally, going for a walk in your neighborhood will not only help you learn a little more about your new home, but it will also increase your likelihood of organically running into your neighbors. Being outdoors and in public provides a low-stress environment to talk to strangers as either party can leave the conversation at any time. Of course, having a dog or other pet can make striking up a conversation with a stranger even easier and more comfortable. At the end of the day, putting yourself out there to meet new people in your area is always a little uncomfortable, but with a little practice, a little patience, and a friendly attitude, you’re sure to make a new friend or two. 

Moving with Shleppers

Before you can focus on meeting new friends in your neighborhood, you need a reliable moving company to get you there. When you’re ready to relocate, Shleppers is here to help. Request a FREE quote or call us at 800-847-4537 today!